Casually speaking with friends, family and peers are as normal as everyone else. But when it comes to talking aloud to others and explaining a point of view, perspective, and/or argument...the entire process sort of blows up in my face. Worst of all it, I feel that it comes off as uncertainty which is exactly what I try to prevent.
Even while I am making a point and/or are in the middle of a sentence, I'm subconsciously second-guessing and thinking of an even better way to say what I'm already currently saying. This does not translate well at all into speaking and I often stumble. It's almost a pointless kind of indecisiveness that defeats the purpose of the interaction.
Obviously this is circumvented by memorizing and/or preparing lines beforehand. But it's not always practical. Speaking effectively on the fly is also something that I desperately want to master. I feel I've missed out on at least one job opportunity because of this happening during a very comprehensive interview.
Does anyone else even do this? It's such a dumb problem. I know its better to be able to clearly convey a "B+" idea than to half-*** deliver something that would be technically better. I don't even know when this started happening. It very well could be the medication...I'll have to try presenting or interviewing without it and see.
Source: http://www.addforums.com/forums/showthread.php?t=130091
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